A Controversial relationship blogger, Blessing Okoro urged women to stop taking care of men financially. She made a lengthy and interesting Instagram video in which she said women have become desperate for marriage that they take on men’s responsibility.
She also stated the importance of men providing for women as it has been written in the holy book. According to her, there is a difference between a ‘man’ and a ‘boy’. If you take away the responsibility of ‘providing’ from a man and he becomes a jobless boy whose only interest is sleeping with women.
“Women stop providing for men. Stop being so desperate for marriage by giving them money. You have made them constantly lazy and they have become boys. Allow a man take up his responsibility to provide which is his job. A man is built to provide. Take away provision from a man, he is a boy. If a man cannot provide, he is a boy. And a boy only bothers about who he will sleep with since he is jobless. Even if he is not financially buoyant, let there be an attempt from him before you assist,” she said.
I think I agree with her last statement “Even if he is not financially buoyant, let there be an attempt from him before you assist” therefore if there is not attempt, there should be not assistance…. Women please be guided!!!